My best friend and I have been friends since we were 4. Being friends with our parents allowed us to hang out together every weekend. We were like sisters, always together and doing everything together. When we were in high school, she had all the boys clamoring to go on dates with her since she was attractive, always dressed in the nicest clothes, and had great style.
She used to make me feel very insecure about myself, but I don’t blame her for anything—not it’s her fault she is gorgeous. But if I hinted to her that I liked someone, she would tell me I had no chance with them and to give up before eventually dating them for a while. Every time a boy considered dating me, I had to hear “ew.” No boy ever expressed interest in having a relationship with me.
I’ve been dating my boyfriend (23m) for six months. We first met in April of last year and quickly became great friends. I never told my best friend about him since I didn’t want her to get all of his attention. When my friend and I had a “sleepover” at her house two weeks ago, she overheard me texting my boyfriend.
When she asked who he was and I replied that he was my boyfriend, she laughed and asked when I had last had a boyfriend. I didn’t want to give her too many details about our relationship, so I just said that we’d been dating for six months and moved on to other topics.
She took my phone that night when I went to bed (she knew my password because she would take it when her phone died and she needed to call someone), went to his Instagram account, got his user and texted him. She never spoke to me. I only learned who she was after my boyfriend emailed me a screenshot and inquired about her.
The texts she sent, such as “hello, are you [my name boyfriend,” ]’s astounded me. Are you sure you are dating her? You look perfect. She even remarked on his attractive appearance in a sweaty photo he took at the gym.
My boyfriend wasn’t thrilled about it because he believed I gave her his usage. When I informed him I hadn’t, though, I broke down in tears like the baby I am and recounted how she had always dated every boy I loved and how insecure I felt around her. He reassured me and kept telling me not to worry about her since he didn’t care. Because I trusted him, I opted to overlook what had transpired after a while.
One hour later, she texted me, “What did [your boyfriend’s name] say to you? Did you request that he ignore me?” He blocked her and I was completely unaware of it. So when she accused me of being a jealous girlfriend, she didn’t believe me when I said I had never requested that he block her.
She created three fictitious identities to text him; I know this because he told me everything and even showed me the texts. He would leave them on reading when she sent him many readers before eventually barring her.
She came to my house and claimed he didn’t talk to her after the third account she gave. I was furious with her when I mentioned that she was flirting with him and that she knew I dated him, but I tried to act cool since I was exhausted and didn’t want to start an argument.
She informed me that my partner is ideally her type. She adores his appearance and needs him. I was shocked by what she said and assumed it was a joke, but it wasn’t. I lost my cool and warned her to stop flirting with him or complimenting him as he is MY boyfriend after she stated, “He is wonderful for me, he is so attractive, and he has nice muscles. I wonder if he has abs.”
She referred to me as rude and an arse. He shouted at me, telling me to end our relationship because I was wasting his time and he could be with someone better since he was her type (aka her). After some time, she broke down in tears and said that if I were her friend, I would quit our relationship because I chose him above her.
I used not to care when she got the other boys I liked because I didn’t have anything to do with them, but now it’s my first boyfriend and the only one who showed some interest in me for who I am. I don’t know what to do about her, but I know I won’t break up with him.
She wants me to break up with him because he is her type but I love him and can’t do something like that. He is furious, just like me, because I told him everything she said. Simply put, I’m sick of her. Should I call it quits on our friendship of more than ten years?
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